HOW DO YOU DEFINE LOVE?

February 16, 2024

“Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God.”

John 4:7

“Love” is one of the most overused words in the English language.

It’s also one of the most difficult to define because love means different things to different people.

So, what is love?

IS LOVE JUST A STATE OF MIND?

This question is one that has been pondered by philosophers, theologians, and everyday people since the beginning of time. The answer, however, may not be as straightforward as we might hope. Love, in its purest form, is more than just a fleeting emotion or a state of mind. It is a deep, enduring commitment.

In the Bible, we find the story of Jesus, who came to Earth out of love for humanity. His love was not based on our merit or our ability to love Him back. Instead, He loved us unconditionally, even when we were at our worst. This love was an active choice that led Him to sacrifice Himself for our sake.

THE EVIDENCE OF LOVE

If love is more than just a state of mind, then how do we recognize it? The evidence of love is found in our actions. As followers of Jesus, we are called to emulate His example of unconditional love, known as agape love. This love is not based on feelings or reciprocation but on a deliberate choice to love others, even when it’s hard.

Agape love is not romantic love, nor is it brotherly love. It is a love that chooses to extend kindness and compassion to others, regardless of their response. It is a love that is willing to forgive, show mercy, and seek the best for others, even when they have hurt us.

In the Bible, we are told, “Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God” (John 4:7). This command is clear and unequivocal. As followers of Jesus, we are called to love others with the same unconditional love that God has shown us. This is the evidence of love in action.

LOVE: THE ULTIMATE COMMANDMENT

The Bible also warns us against harboring hatred in our hearts. When we allow anger and resentment to fester, it can lead to hatred and a desire for revenge. This is contrary to the commandment to love our neighbors as ourselves. Instead of seeking vengeance, we are called to forgive, love, and seek reconciliation.

Jesus Himself suffered the ultimate humiliation and pain at the hands of those He loved. Yet, He chose to forgive and to love, even in the face of total betrayal.

Have you ever experienced agape love? If you have given your life to Jesus, you are already living inside His all-encompassing love that endures for eternity.

If you want to experience this amazing, agape love, consider giving your life to Jesus! You’ll never regret it.

Written by Bryant Wright, Founder, RFTH

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