Is anger the same as murder? Certainly not, right? Jesus would disagree – equating anger with murder when it comes to the seriousness of the sin. In other words, there’s no scale when it comes to sin: losing one’s temper and murder are the same in God’s eyes.
But Jesus got angry, so how can anger be a sin if Jesus never sinned? Well, it’s a bit complicated – especially when we read in Ephesians 4: 26: “In your anger do not sin.” So how can we make sense of all this?
- Righteous Anger ISN’T wrong. Righteous anger is the kind of anger that God and Jesus displayed in the Bible. It’s an anger that comes when God is not respected, when our fellow man is taken advantage of, or an injustice is committed against the defenseless. This kind of anger often moves us to action. However, if in the process of defending the defenseless WE lose our temper, that righteous anger suddenly becomes wrong in God’s eyes; it becomes a sin.
- Losing our temper – IS sin. No matter the circumstances, losing our temper always means we’ve blown it. We’ve all said and done things in a fit of temper that we deeply regret. Often, this only complicates the problem.
- Contempt for Others – IS sin. This refers to any feelings of superiority or acts that belittle or insult others, all of which are sin.
- Name calling – IS sin. According to Jesus, teasing and name calling is a sin equal to murder. Here the word “fool” used in scripture is similar to the word “moron.” Do you see the gravity of what Jesus was talking about? The seriousness of an arrogant attitude and pride that leads to disrespecting others is no laughing matter.
So what are we to do? If we have allowed anger to get in the way of a relationship, if we’ve lost our temper, belittled another or even called them a “harmless” but derogatory name – we need to stop and make it right. Confess it to God and ask for the courage to go and make it right with the person you’ve wronged.