“God is kind of being a jerk, isn’t He?” 

It wasn’t the response I was going for. There we were, sitting around our eggs and toast, just like most mornings. We had the Bible open for the morning devotion, reading from Genesis 11 – the story of the tower of Babel:  

The whole earth had a common language and a common vocabulary.  When the people moved eastward, they found a plain in Shinar and settled there. Then they said to one another, “Come, let’s make bricks and bake them thoroughly.” (They had brick instead of stone and tar instead of mortar.) Then they said, “Come, let’s build ourselves a city and a tower with its top in the heavens so that we may make a name for ourselves. Otherwise, we will be scattered across the face of the entire earth” Genesis 11:1-4.

You remember the rest of the story. To stop their tower building, the Lord confused the languages of these people and scattered them throughout the earth. We had read this story to our kids, and that’s one of the responses that came back: 

“God is kind of being a jerk, isn’t He?” 

Digging in Deeper

Interesting. And an unexpected challenge over breakfast. So, we tried to dig in a bit more to understand the thinking behind the statement. In our kids’ minds, there was a disproportionate response to the people’s actions. After all, it was only a tower. And people in cities build towers all the time, don’t they? And God just drops in and confuses their languages? Sounds like some kind of cosmic bully. 

Kids have a way of cutting to the heart of the issue, don’t they? They aren’t yet so polite as to hide the truth behind platitudes. 

Whether we did a good job of explaining the story to them, time will tell. But in thinking more about this specific issue, I think our kids have pointed out a tendency that we share as adults. Namely, we have the tendency to focus on a single action (or inaction of God) and draw conclusions about who He is rather than the other way around. 

Who It Is Matters

For the sake of illustration, let’s imagine another incident with another tower. Let’s say my three kids are building a tower out of Legos® in our front yard. They are very proud of their craftsmanship. They have worked long and hard on their structure, reaching a substantial height and stability. Now let’s say that the neighborhood bully comes riding up on his bicycle. (Nope. Check that. He comes riding up on his four-wheeler ‘cause that’s what bullies ride up on). 

So, he rides up on his four-wheeler, hops off, and immediately knocks down their tower. Then, without any kind of explanation, hops back on and peels out down the driveway.  

But let’s say that the same tower is built, but it’s not the neighborhood bully that comes riding up; it’s me. Their daddy. And I come riding toward them, swiftly knock down their tower, and then peel out down the driveway. 

Same action. Same results. But a different person doing the demolition. Hopefully, there is a different interpretation for one incident than the other. Hopefully, my children know me well enough by this point to give me the benefit of the doubt. They might not understand why I knocked down the tower, but they know me. And they interpret my actions in light of who they know me to be. 

God’s Full Character

So often, I (and maybe we) zoom in on a particular instance. A circumstance that God has seen fit to bring into our lives or some other circumstance that He has seen fit to leave there. And we conclude in our deepest, darkest moments about who God is based on that incident. Oh, how we must reverse this – how we must choose to understand God in light of God. 

We must return again and again to what we know to be true of God to try and understand the work of God. So, what do we know to be true about God? Well, we know the cross is true. When we look to the cross, we see the validation of God’s holiness, wisdom, justice, and great love.  

This is where we see the character of God on full display, and this is what we must use to understand the actions of God. It’s because we can look again and again to the cross that we can understand God in light of God. 

Written by Michael Kelley, Guest Contributor

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