â€œHusbands, love your wivesâ€¦â€ – Colossians 3:19
Husbands, what our wives most need from us is love. But there are several aspects of love that most men donâ€™t come by naturally. One is the womanâ€™s need for romance, attention, and affection. Now I know what some of you guys are thinking: â€œHey, I like sex; Iâ€™ll meet that need.â€ Of course, if that is what youâ€™re thinking, youâ€™re clueless!
Husbands, remember that with our wives, romance and affection is much more than sex. Itâ€™s how we treat her throughout the day. Itâ€™s saying words like, â€œI love youâ€ and â€œI need you.â€ Itâ€™s a listening ear. Itâ€™s remembering special days like anniversaries, birthdays, and Valentineâ€™s Day. Itâ€™s having weekly dates and overnight getawaysâ€”times of falling in love all over again.
Godâ€™s Word says, â€œHusbands, love your wives.â€ Just remember that love means romance, affection, attention, and not just sex.